Healing Your Nervous System After Narcissistic Abuse:Trauma-Informed EMDR & Mind-Body Therapy for Women in Connecticut
- Randi Camirand

- Jan 6
- 3 min read
Narcissistic abuse impacts your nervous system, your sense of safety, and your connection to your inner self. If you’ve been in a relationship with a narcissistic partner, parent, family member, or boss, you may still feel the effects in your mind and body long after the relationship has ended.
Many women experiences:
• anxiety or hyper-vigilance
• overthinking or self-doubt
• trouble sleeping or relaxing
• people-pleasing or walking on eggshells
• emotional shutdown or numbness
• exhaustion from constantly bracing inside
This is not a personal failing.
It is a nervous system response to trauma.
And healing is absolutely possible — slowly, gently, and safely.
As a Connecticut EMDR therapist and meditation teacher, I can support you through narcissistic abuse recovery using trauma-informed therapy and somatic, mind-body approaches.
I understand how deeply this experience impacts the body, heart, and sense of self, and I only use practices that I have personally experienced as meaningful and effective.
How Narcissistic Abuse Impacts the Nervous System
Narcissistic abuse creates emotional instability and unpredictability. Love, warmth, or connection can suddenly shift into criticism, withdrawal, or control.
Over time, your nervous system learns to stay alert, scanning for the next change in tone, mood, or behavior.
This can lead to:
• fight-or-flight anxiety
• freeze or shutdown
• difficulty trusting yoursel
f• disconnection from the body
• shame or self-blame
• feeling like you’ve “lost yourself”
This is not something you can simply think your way out of.
Healing happens through the body — by restoring safety at a nervous-system level.
My Trauma-Informed Healing Approach
As a Connecticut-based EMDR therapist, I support women in slowly rebuilding safety, self-trust, and grounded presence. My work integrates compassionate, research-supported, and deeply embodied modalities.
EMDR Therapy
A powerful trauma-healing approach that helps process and release unhealed experiences so your nervous system no longer stays stuck in survival mode.
Mind-Body & Somatic Therapy
We gently reconnect you with sensation, grounding, breath, and internal awareness — helping your system relearn what “safe enough” feels like.
Realization Process Meditation
A subtle, embodied practice that supports connection to your core self — the part of you that remains whole, even after trauma.
Havening Techniques®
A soothing touch-based approach (self-applied) that supports calm, emotional release, and deep nervous system regulation.
Reiki & Energy Healing
Optional sessions to support relaxation, release, and energetic repair.
Women’s Online Meditation — Cameras Off
A soft, nurturing space where you don’t need to perform or be seen — just breathe, listen inward, and restore your nervous system.
This work is gentle. Respectful. Slow.
We move at the pace your system feels safe to go.
What Healing Can Begin to Feel Like
Over time, women often notice:
less anxiety + hyper-vigilance
more grounded confidence
restored body awareness
emotional clarity & self-trust
relief from emotional triggers
a sense of inner homecoming
Narcissistic abuse recovery is not about fixing you.
It’s about coming back to yourself.
You’re Not “Too Sensitive” — You Were Overwhelmed
If your reality was dismissed…
If your feelings were minimized…
If you learned to make yourself small…
You deserve to heal.
As a therapist who understands narcissistic abuse, I hold a compassionate, steady space for your nervous system to soften, without pressure or judgment.
You don’t have to heal alone.
Connecticut-Based Support for Narcissistic Abuse Recovery
I work with women throughout Connecticut who are ready to:
• heal trauma stored in the body
• rebuild inner safety and self-trust
• recover from narcissistic abuse
• reconnect with their authentic self
• experience therapy that honors the nervous system
Whether you are newly out of a relationship or years into your healing — there is support here.
If this speaks to you, I would be honored to walk with you on your journey home to yourself.
Contact me through randicamirand.com
